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Embracing My Path: Beyond the Pressure to Marry

Sep 21 2023

Hello, I am Anisha, and I'm 29 years old. In my world, where I come from, there's often a lot of pressure on women my age to get married. It's like society expects marriage to be the magic door to the next stage of life, as if it's the only way to start a new chapter.

But I've come to realize that a new phase of life doesn't begin with a wedding ring; it begins with investing in myself. I want to share with you how I've chosen a different path, one that's all about self-discovery and growth.

I dream of traveling the world, learning new skills, excelling at my work, and earning a reputation I truly value. These dreams aren't limited by my gender; they're what I believe every person should have the right to pursue. In my Indian context, I see countless women who've redefined their roles, shattered glass ceilings, and proved that household life isn't the only option.

I want to be true to myself and follow the unique purpose I was born with. While I'm open to meeting someone who shares my aspirations and values, marriage doesn't define me. It's a choice, not an obligation.

In my journey, I've met incredible women who've embraced their individuality, and I'm inspired by their stories. They've shown me that I can be the author of my own life, free from the expectations that society might place on me.

So, my friends, remember that life isn't a one-size-fits-all story. Each of us has a unique path, and I'm determined to find mine, one step at a time, whether I walk it alone or with a like-minded partner. I aspire to be a spirited woman.

Blog Written by Skills Trainer Participant